Coffee with Cotton – September 16, 2010
Yesterday I discussed four principles that may help you get going on your planning and goal setting for 2011. Today I want to write about what happens when goals don’t work out. Unfortunately for a lot of people, when they don’t meet a goal, they just kind of give up altogether. Some people say “what is the purpose of planning when things are constantly changing especially in this economy”. Well part of the answer is simply, planning helps you focus and you will always get more done than if you didn’t plan or set goals. But we do have to be realistic and realize that sometimes we don’t meet our goals. Here are some tips on what to do when a goal doesn’t work out or is not achieved:
- Review the situation. Look at it objectively and specifically. What things did you do right? Where do you think you went wrong? Don’t beat yourself up for not meeting the goal.
- Did you set specific measurements as to what it will mean when you achieve the goal? Were these measurements or “metrics” correct?
- Were the goals realistic and attainable? The key to good goal setting is to set a high standard so that you stretch, but there is also something as being too ambitious. Let’s say I set a goal of climbing Mt Everest. While I believe that I could with proper training and timing, it is probably an unrealistic goal at my age!
- Try a different approach to meeting the goal. Perhaps you need to break the goal down into smaller tasks or activities over a longer period of time.
- Assess honestly if it is a goal you really even need to achieve. Sometimes a goal we set is more “wishful thinking” and perhaps it is just not a good fit at this time.
As we finish up the week tomorrow, I’ll give you another suggestion on breaking through challenges to your goals.